Thursday, December 06, 2007

Rules

After a long deep thinking session of around 5 minutes, I think I have discovered the following ‘tested & working” ways to keep yourself happy:-

  • Live in the present. Don’t give a duck about the past or the future. What has happened you cant change and what is going to happen you cant change much of that too (though many self-help-book-reading maniacs will differ on this), so to live the present moment to the fullest & you will never be sad for another second.
  • Time to time reflect back on your life and remember all those times when you were really happy. When something really good happened to you or when you got rewarded for something good. Suddenly, you will feel a rush of happiness gushing thru your viens.
  • Always take out time to do things you love to do. Be it dancing like animals, eating out at your fav place, watching movies or any wild thing on earth. Never hesitate for following your passions.
  • Always laugh out loud, from deep within your heart. Be with people who make you do that. We don’t realize, but without laughing, our life stinks like a room which hasn’t been exposed to sunlight for months. If you cant have the company of such people, then be one.
  • Stop having expectations from people. The more you expect from someone, the more you will get hurt. If you don’t expect anything, every thing done by everyone else will be a pleasant surprise. Even if they don’t do something, you will never realize, cauz u didn’t expect anything.
  • Finally, remember that every passing second reduces your life span by a fraction. Every passing day is one unit less from the total allocated to you. Then why the duck u need to spend it worrying, crying, thinking and being sad. Nothing is worthy enough to make you waste your time worrying on.

What is gone, was never yours. What is yours, you will get anyways. So what is there to think about. Give the best to the present moment and you will always get fabulous returns from life.

(Someone please come and make me believe and follow all this :) )

3 Human response(s):

Deepak said...

Your post varies from person to person...
Only if you experience something sad...
Happiness looks more g8!!!

Rajarshi said...

Hey thanx a lot fr introducn me to him....nd nice post...but i feel that its a very relative thing

Unknown said...

this stuff hasnt worked 4 me really...but Im a firm believer in doin wat u do & not give a damn 2 what oders have 2 say!!!